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What to expect when coming to Court
Legal Professionals - Who does what
Get Free Legal Help From Barristers
Understanding Criminal law vs Civil Law
​The Rule of Law - Judicial Independence
The Rule of Law Explained (Eight One Minute Videos)
A Guide for Representing Yourself in Court
The Survivor Diaries Helpful videos from a Family Law Solicitor
Handbook for Litigants in Person (LiPs)
Preparation of Bundles as an LiP
Going to Court or Tribunal without a Lawyer
New Divorce Laws - expected to be coming into law Autumn 2021
Reducing Family Conflict - Govt (MoJ) response to the consultation on reform of legal requirements for divorce 2019
​How to address a Judge
Inside the Crown Court (Video)
Inside a Magistrates Court (Video)
Day in the life of a Judge (Video)
Going to Court, including advice for Litigants in Person
Transparency in the Family Court System (Video)
Judicial College and training in Domestic Abuse
Domestic Abuse Guidelines for Prosecutors
The Judicial College
The Lord Chief Justice (Video)
CAFCASS - Children and Family Court Advisory & Support
Domestic Violence Protection Orders and DVPNs
The Coercive Control Law - a criminal law
Harassment and Stalking Law
Getting an Injunction(Non Molestation Order)
All other Legislation (laws)
Clare's Law - Domestic Abuse Disclosure Scheme
President of the Family Division,  Sir Andrew McFarlane
Make a complaint about a Judge
What Happens If I Ask For Help For Drug or Alcohol Addiction (Child Protection)
Learn about The Hague Convention (video)
Family Court - Making your application to Court (Video)
Family Court - Attending a Full Hearing
Dividing the Family Home During Divorce - Money Helper
Contempt of Court - what is it?
​UK Libel Laws Failing Abuse Victims
Defamation
Family Practice Directions
Sentencing Guidelines
How To Apply For A Court Order For Child Arrangements - LiPs
Practice Direction 12J Revised Child Arrangement, Contact Orders: Domestic Abuse and Harm
Financial Statement For Financial Remedy - Form E1 Divorce
Application for enforcement of Child Arrangement Order
​All other court forms/applications
HMCTS - Understanding Family Mediation (Video)
The Law Commission - Report on Enforcement of Family Orders
The response to the Law Commission Report ​
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​DATABASE:
Page linking to all the various Family Court Acts: including Adoption, Childrens Act, Hague convention, Civil Partnership etc
Bailii - Central Database of Court Cases Civil Criminal and Family Courts.
Sharia Law - The independent review into the application of Sharia law in England and Wales
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Regulators & Authorities

Solicitors Regulation Authority - Standards and Regulations 
Solicitors Regulation Authority Enforcement Strategy
SRA - Balancing Duties in Litigation
Law Society 
Legal Ombudsman
International Bar Association
DOMESTIC ABUSE COMMISSIONER 
Victims Commissioner   
Victims Commissioner Dame Vera Baird QC 
​IAFL (International Academy of Family Lawyers)
​Bar Standards Board
Transparency Project
​Legal Action Group
Open Justice
Law Centres Network
Resolution

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Parliament (UK)

How Parliament Makes Laws
What are All Party Parliamentary Groups (APPGs)​​
Register of APPGS
Government Strategy to End Violence Against Women and Girls 2016-2020
Refresh of VAWG Strategy 2019
Reporting On Child Abuse and Neglect
What Do MPs Do?
What Your MP Can Do For You
Contact Your MP
Standing for Political or Public Office  50:50 Parliament
#AskHerToStand Women2Win
Conservative Women's Association 
Women & Equalities Committee
MPs very involved with Domestic Abuse:
Jess Phillips MP (Labour)
Maria Miller MP (Conservative)
Louise Haigh MP (Labour)
Victoria Atkins MP (Conservative Minister)
Dawn Butler MP (Labour)
Paul Scully MP ( Conservative) 
Katy Bourne (Police & Crime Commissioner - Sussex)
Start a Petition
Gov.uk
Government Briefing Paper on Domestic Violence

Charities 
& Support

DOMESTIC ABUSE COMMISSIONER
Report Domestic Abuse
Women's Aid
Surviving Economic Abuse 
Surviving Economic Abuse - List of organisations who can help
Refuge
Safe Lives
GALOP  - LGBT
AdviceNow
FLOWS - Finding Legal Options
UK Says No More
Agenda Alliance
Can't Buy My Silence Campaign - to ban the use of NDAs
Rights of Women
Advocate - Finding free legal assistance
Whistleblowers
Respect Men's Advice Line
Southall Black Sisters
AVA Project
Suzy Lamplugh Trust - Stalking
Mankind Initiative
Domestic Abuse Housing  Alliance (DAHA)
Paladin (Stalking)
White Ribbon
Level Up
​Centre for Women's Justice
​AAFDA
GALOP (LGBT+ community support)
​Fawcett Society
​Welsh Women's Aid
​​Money Advice Trust
Citizens Advice 
Victim of a Crime - Your Rights
FullFact
NarcWise
The Freedom Programme
Shout
Shelter
PTSD UK
Family Rights Group
Global ARRK - International Custody Disputes
​Step Change - Debt advice
My Urban Jungle - Affordable Tenants and Contents Insurance for Renters
​Alice Ruggles Trust (stalking)

Articles

For Books see the drop-down menu
​20 Signs Your Partner is Controlling
Emotional Abuse
How Domestic Abusers Weaponise The Courts
Adult Grooming
10 Unexpected Symptoms of PTSD
​Not Too Posh to Punch - Tatler
Why Don't They Leave?
Learn about Highly Acute Perceptivity (HAP) Highly Sensitive People (HSP) and what it means to be an 'empath'
Why you shouldn't treat abuse as a 'compatibility issue' or a 'bad break up'
The Corporate Psychopath
Narcissism/Sociopathy - A Guide for Therapists and Law Enforcement
Why Men Oppress Women - The Psychology of Domination
FBI Advice to their agents on The Corporate Psychopath
The Handbook of Narcissism and Narcissistic Personality Disorder
The Abuser and his Allies
Alarming Effects of Children's Exposure to DV
Borderline or Narcissist?
What  an abuser staying friends with exes could mean
12 Reasons Why Couples Counselling is not recommended in abuse
Gaslighting
Love Bombing
11 Manipulative Ways a Narcissist Sabotages
An excellent compendium of articles about Narcissists
Understanding Sociopaths
What Happens When You Break Up With A Narcissist
Blindsided - Spotting and Recovering from Narcissistic Abuse
Six Toxic Arguing Techniques Used by Narcissists and Manipulators
Are you Being Subtly Abused?
In Defence of The Gold-Digger
Why Does Everyone Hate The Family Courts?
​How Narcissists Twist the Story
Gaslighting
Interviews:
What is Gaslighting?
Deception, Deceit and ConMen - Intimate Lies


REPORTS:
The Economics of Domestic Abuse Report
The Annual Audit - Women's Aid
Coercive Control - Impacts on Children & young adults (Free download)
Beyond "Witnessing": Children's experiences of Coercive Control in DV and Abuse
Safe and Well - SafeLives Research into Domestic Abuse and Mental Health
Living With Coercive Control
Coercive Control and Child Custody Proceedings
Male victims of Domestic Violence and Partner Abuse
Captive & Controlled - Rural Abuse. Full Report
Ask & Take Action Report Aug 2019

​ OTHER - Finance
Concealment of Beneficial Ownership - FATF
How to investigate people/companies found in the leaks database
Capital Without Borders
​​Trusts: Weapons of Mass Injustice
Offshore Leaks Database (Panama/Paradise/Appleby)
Open Corporates
Global Witness
Companies House Beta
Reporting Tax Evasion Anonymously
Trusts of Land Act
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Forensic Accountants
Fiona Hotston-Moore

Financial/Economic Abuse Campaign
​My Money, My Life
​Martin Lewis' Financial Abuse Blog
​Starting Over: How To Rebuild Finances After Financial Abuse *USA*

Law Firms, Chambers etc

None of these lawyers or law firms are recommended by me. You must make your own decisions re legal representation. These names are given as they are firms that have previously dealt with Domestic Abuse or Power and Control issues in divorce and or child arrangements.
Domestic Abuse and Controlling and Coercive Behaviour in an Intimate Familial Relationship from Kingsley Napley
​Centre For Women's Justice  - Harriet Wistrich
​Beck Fitzgerald - Jenny Beck
Ben Hoare Bell - Cris McCurley &  team
​Dawson Cornwell - Anne-Marie Hutchinson OBE QC
Bindmans - Olivia Piercey
Stowe Family Law
​McCormicks Solicitors - Carol Hancock and Stephen Hopwood
Watson Ramsbottom - Leading Domestic Abuse Lawyer, Rachel Horman
Vardags
Barratt and Thomson- Claire Fitzgerald
Goldsmith Chambers  - Dr Charlotte Proudman
​Trent Chambers - Usha Sood
TWM - Sarah Archibald
Morecrofts - Julie Ann Waring
Garden Court Chambers
LMK Law - Elizabeth Sulkin
Sears Tooth
Withers
One ​Pump Court Chambers
Doughty Street Chambers​
Professor Jo Delahunty QC - Child Protection
Harriet Wistrich
Gloria Allred (USA)
​HF Legal
​Fletcher Day - Abuse, Non- Molestation, Harassment etc 
​Rayden Solicitors - Experts in Domestic Abuse

Journalists

Louise Tickle
Claire Cohen ( The Telegraph)
Laura Hughes (FT)
Greg Hurst (The Times)
​Anna Moore
Juliette Garside ( ICIJ Investigations)
Will Fitzgibbon - (ICIJ Investigations)

Conferences

Keep checking back as this page is continually being updated

Conferences on Coercive Control

Conferences 2019:
4th March 2019 LIVERPOOL 
White Ribbon Conference 5 June 2019
Sort it With Stella. 10 June 2019. Sort it with Stella & Friends is a journey of self discovery and growth for women affected by domestic abuse.
Women's Budget Group Report Launch - 12 June, Portcullis House, Parliament
Family Court Free Conference - 13th June, Bradford
2nd July 2019 BURY ST EDMUNDS
Women's Aid National Conference: The Feminist Frontline. 16/17 July 2019
Rachel Williams' Conference  'Still WeRise'- 13 September 2019, Celtic Manor Hotel, Wales 

Conferences 2020: 
Women's Aid Conference Domestic Abuse: The Hidden Housing Crisis? - Jan 28 2020. London
​AAFDA Annual Conference - 19 March 2020. DoubleTree Hilton, Swindon
SafeLives 2020 Conference - 24 March 2020. London
CWO                                                - 13 May Domestic Abuse Act Conference
Next Women's Aid APPG        - 24 May 2021 - Domestic Abuse Act, Refuges and Housing

* All conferences for 2020/2021 were postponed or are being conducted online due to Covid 19. Please check with individual charities for updates.

Experts on Coercive Control
Twitter Handles

Dr Evan Stark (Coercive Control)
Dr Nicola Sharp-Jeffs (Economic Abuse)
Dr Jane Monckton(Coercive Control and Criminology)
Dr Emma Katz (Children & Domestic Abuse)
Dr Supriya McKenna (Narcissistic Divorce Specialist, former GP)
​Laura Richards (Stalking)
Martin Lakeman (Coercive Control)
Rachel Williams (DV Survivor)
Zoe Dronfield (DV Survivor)
Dr Laura Monk (Psychotherapy/DVA)
Luke & Ryan Hart (Coercive Control)
​Polly Neate (CEO Shelter)
Alison Inman (Housing)
Gudrun Burnet (Housing)
Lundy Bancroft (Controlling Partners)
Shannon Thomas (Financial Abuse USA)
Min Grob (Coercive Control)
Dr Ramani Durvasula (Narcissism/Sociopathy)
Shahida Arabi (Narcissism/Sociopathy)
Melanie Tonia Evans (Narcissism)
Katy Barrow-Grint (Police Superintendent. Expert on Domestic Abuse)
David Challen (Son of Sally Challen)
Sam Vaknin PhD (Narcissism/Personality Disorders)
Dr Stephanie Sarkis (Gaslighting)

Please let me know if you'd like to see a name added to the list

Other

Michelle Young Foundation
The Group Hug (See News section too)

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